Posted January 27, 2014 by Tabby T in Lifestyle

Men: Reasons Why She’s Not Reaching Orgasm

MEN TAKE NOTES! According to MensHeath.com, here are some interesting possibilities as to why you and your lady maybe a little dysfunctional in the bedroom..AND also what you can do to help.

Can’t get her off? Perhaps it’s more than lack of foreplay.

Women with introverted personalities are more likely to experience problems in the bedroom than outgoing ladies, according to research published in the journal Sexual Medicine. In fact, more reticent respondents were also less open to new experiences.

If your girlfriend leans more towards the quiet side, don’t worry: Providing her with emotional support can make her more satisfied with her sex life—and make it easier for her to climax, says study author Christina Crisp, M.D.

But how do you show your support? If you can tell she’s let down or upset post-romp, try these three techniques:

Don’t judge—or offer advice: This may lead her to crawl deeper into her shell, advises Les Parrott, Ph.D., a psychologist at Seattle Pacific University and coauthor of Saving Your Marriage Before it Starts.

Say that you understand: Statements such as “I can completely see why you’re feeling this way, how can we fix this?” will communicate that her words aren’t falling on deaf ears, Parrot explains.

Use “We”: It takes the pressure off her by reinforcing this is something the two of you can work through together.