Posted December 17, 2013 by Marie-D in Entertainment News

Rihanna Gives Fan Solid Relationship Advice: ‘I Refuse To Let A Man Play Me’


No matter how preoccupied Princess Riri maybe, she always takes time out of her busy schedule to talk to her fans!

Rihanna has one of the loyal and strongest fans ever! With that being said, over the weekend, a fan reached out to Riri in a private message. She wrote:

“Hey Rih, I hope it’s not a bad time to message. Just been down lately and wondering if you had any words of encouragement. Trust issues with men.”

Within in minutes Rihanna responded:

Anytime I have trust issues, I often assume that it has a lot to do with myself. Most of the time it’s difficult to differentiate. Intuition and insecurities! But no one ever wants to wait to figure it out. Whatever we do, we don’t want to feel stupid! So we tend to jump the gun with no evidence to back it up. That’s the biggest mistake anyone could ever make.

She also shared:

My advice, which is exactly what I’ve done, is if sh-t isn’t making sense to me, I’m out. I mean cold turkey! I always need to step out of it to see it for what it is cuz I refuse to let a man play me. If he has no respect, he just doesn’t!

But you don’t have to allow it or be bound by it.

Well Isn’t That The Truth! Get it Rihanna!

Although it was a private message, the fan felt that it was only right that he shared her advice, tweeting:

“This advice was way too solid not to share it with people who could benefit from it.”